(Written for a Magazine Feature Development assignment, October 2007)
A thought’s been running through my mind for the last forty-eight hours, ever since I watched a recent Channel Four documentary entitled ‘In search of Mr. Average’. It’s something that I’ve always wondered about, which has finally been clarified by several individuals across the country via the wonderful method of broadcasting.
This thought is to do with happiness. It’s a question of priorities and perceptions and has provoked huge considerations on my part, as to the current state of our lives and the actions we take. Within this programme the film-maker turned presenter, Tim Wardle, researches national statistics as to what behavioral and lifestyle qualities an average Briton possesses. He then makes it his quest to find one person in the country which fits that description, if indeed they do exist.
According to statistics found by the program, Mr or Mrs Average will drink three cups of tea a day, believe in God, hate brussel sprouts, have sex eight times a month, live in a £200,000 house and drive a Ford Fiesta amongst other things. On his travels Wardle meets several characters of which he feels may fit the criteria, but on the whole many do not fulfill all. One man he came across had decided at a point in his life, that he was fed up of his IT career and packed it all in to become a caretaker at a local school. Many may think this was an unusual decision, as did I upon hearing it at first and was curious to find out why. It prevailed during his interview that this was down to just one thing; happiness. He was tired of his usual routine, the hard work that he’d put in to achieve this job and the continuous hard work that was involved in maintaining it and therefore, he just gave it all up, in want of a simple life. This hit me as being absolutely phenomenal. A simple act that many may feel is ridiculous, became quite heart warming. I’m sure a job in caretaking can’t provide much in terms of wealth, but at least it provides stability and he certainly seems to have benefited from it in terms of his emotional state. No wonder this guy didn’t achieve the title of Britain’s ‘most average person’. He may live a fairly ordinary life, with an average job and so on, but in getting there he has done something that many of us wouldn’t even dream of; he gave up a job mid-career.
Perhaps this is through fear of other people’s perceptions of us or perhaps many feel they don’t have a choice; we all have to earn a living. But it seems a lot of people feel they’d be giving up on ‘going places’ in life. But where? So many people these days seem to want more and more, but how many people actually achieve what they want and are content when they do attain this? As a race we seem to keep striving onwards as if there’s something even better waiting for us, dismissing the present and ever longing for the future. It’s the way in which we seem to have been going since the end of the Second World War, when our cultural identities, then shaped by the church, our families and a sense of nationalism were eroded, resulting in our jobs becoming our defining factors. Before this, Sunday morning church visits and food rationing were average, as was having a family with two or more children, whereas it has now become common for families to have only one child, with many women giving birth later on in life, if at all, due to pursuing their careers or trying to maintain a high standard of living. Being average just doesn’t seem to be enough anymore.
The search continued within the programme, because the investigator discovered the IT professional-turned-caretaker’s make of car didn’t fit with the statistics he had earlier studied (shock, horror!). He then began advertising far and wide across the media in hope that this statistical Mr. Average would emerge.
Oddly enough, despite the negative public opinions he obtained at the start of the program, with people stating offense at being regarded as average, he had a huge response from people all over Britain wanting to prove they were just that. It led him, finally, to a family man, whose wife had put her husband’s name forward after hearing about the search. He shared a similar mindset to the caretaker, accepting life, with comfort and contentment. He had a wife and two children, a mortgage, a job, beliefs and so on and he wasn’t striving for anything more than that. Some viewers of the program and any readers of this piece may see that kind of lifestyle as boring and uneventful, but it certainly made an impact on my views. What are they worth; all those times we stress ourselves out and judge one another’s actions, decisions and lifestyles, if we are not happy? After all, as far as I can tell, not least from the sentiment reached in the film, happiness is what the whole of the human race is essentially searching for in one way or another. I suppose if working ourselves to the bone is the way in which you achieve it, then I applaud everybody in that situation. I, myself know full well that I will probably continue to climb higher for some time now, until I reach a decision as to whether or not particular paths are for me.
But this thought, the one that has been circulating ever since viewing that documentary – to the point where I felt compelled to write these words – is undeniably going to stick with me for some considerably time, and if I ever come across individuals comparable to the ones in that programme, I will congratulate them on acquiring a successful balance in life that many of us let pass us by.
Living in the free(lance) world
I thought it best I update this ‘ere blog and provide any on-lookers a bit of context to my previous ‘status update’ post. It was not meant as a form of bragging, but ‘this is what I’m currently up to’ and an appeal for help – I am in need of further work to keep myself alive (physically, mentally and creatively).
The Guardian Careers Blog recently published an exciting (or at least, reassuring) article entitled: Graduate job seeking: The rise of the ‘slasher’.
In spite of the unfortunate wording I am proud to say that I myself am a slasher. It’s not a new concept – far from it, but perhaps it’s one that will become much more widely recognised, accepted and hopefully praised in the near future given the increasingly tumultuous job market.
The phrase ‘slasher’ is simple. It is someone who works in various different fields, i.e. a journalist/web developer/lecturer or as mentioned in the article pharmacist/writer/lawyer….the list is endless and full of opportunity.
This is something that excites me because when I underwent my placement at BBC Radio 1 back in 2009 I did so with the intention of becoming a Music Journalist/Reporter and instead came out with knowledge of the roles of Producers/Journalists/Executive Producers/Editors/Documentary Makers/Broadcast(Unit) Assistants/Web Developers…all sorts and despite my excitement of having such insight (plus the opportunity to rule out those I was uninterested in) I was given these words of advice within my exit interview, “narrow your focus”.
Narrowing my focus has since been my aim but with very little success. I have been living in constant fear that my skills and work experience will appear too broad to employers and I will seem indecisive. I’ll admit I have been very much undecided in the past but I honestly don’t believe that should be seen as a negative attribute, as long as you have drive and the willingness to be dedicated to whichever job you take on.
I once interviewed Hardeep Singh (of The One Show fame, among other things) – he told me in a rather blunt manner that people shouldn’t be pigeon-holed and nor should they be put off doing a variety of roles; “why should anyone have to be just one thing?” he stated in a firm, almost abrupt manner. Regardless of your perception of Singh, his words resonated with me. Rarely do people know exactly what they want to do in life, let alone have the confidence and opportunity to make that job happen.
I now have a much clearer idea of the type of work I want to be involved with now due to the very fact that I have experimented with events, broadcasting, writing, PR and so on. I understand that it is going to take some time to get there; along the way I will have to pick up odd jobs and simply apply the same enthusiasm regardless, as that is just the way the world is – we need money to survive and people to put in hard work to what others see as menial jobs.
I wish everyone was forced to work in an admin or labour-intensive job before embarking on their careers so that they could share the same perspective, then perhaps they’d appreciate how hard it is to ensure an organisation functions successfully and fully appreciate that no one in this world is superior to another (this is not meant to sound pro-communism, it’s just common sense).
And on that note I’m off to write an article, then a radio script, look into the likelihood of securing arts funding and re-shaping my CV for part-time work to pay the bills….it’s going to be a long night, but for once in my life I’m feeling pretty positive about it.
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